Dear Bella:

If he was happy now, he wouldn’t be angry with you. He is angry because he is not happy. And how or why would he be happy if he wasn’t before..? Things and people make us happy only temporarily and we go back to the way we felt before.

So he does have a girlfriend who  is younger than you, about 43 then? She doesn’t have children living with them, I assume. I may very well be wrong, but reads to me that it is a matter of time before he is back knocking on your door, saying: may I come in, please? I am back!

What will you say and do then, if it happens?

anita