Dear lucifer:

There was a move to a different house, money problems you started drinking, you said things to her that you regret, she crashed her car and blamed you for it. This is all I know about your marriage of 14 years, that and that you had some good times and now have some good memories and a longing to be with her again.

Thing is, “she said was stay away from my house”, she told you to stay away from her, correct? If so, got to respect that, no matter how much you miss her. You wrote, “I am about to give up on trying to get my ex wife back”- reads like a good plan to me.

Sometimes relationship break and it is either impossible or way too difficult to bring it back to life. Better give up. After all, a divorce has taken place. It has been broken for a while.

“need help please” is the title of your thread. Please tell me what is it that you need help with, specifically?

anita