Hi Anita. Sorry I’m not making much sense. I’m not a native english speaker, plus it’s a lot of emotional stuff I just threw out here. My sister basically did everything like mom. And my point was that I couldn’t learn any better from her either.

Vidya, not sure if you’re an offended mother or if this is seriously how you give advice. “I would only say that there is expiry date to blaming people in your life for where you end up. At 31, you are way past that age. Look around you, people with way more challenges rise up.” -That’s some motivation. Hope you don’t go around giving that advice to depressed people, to “look around” and feel inspired by others who rise up. And maybe throw a bit of “snap out of it” in there too.