Dear Bella:

Yes, there is a benefit to PI work, and at this point, the benefit is in quitting the job. I do wish you luck. In addition to  luck I wish you to have some fun today, to have a good conversation, light and easy but attentive, so that you start the process of learning about this man, and sharing bit by bit about you so that he gets to know you. Remember, you don’t owe him or anyone to feel that you are over your ex, to feel any which way or to think any particular thoughts and not others.

You owe yourself and others to behave honestly, to choose to do what is right for you and for the other person. I will be away from the computer in about an hour for the next seventeen hours or so. Will be looking forward to read from you tomorrow, very much so!

anita