Dear Hannah:

“a man shouted out that his male friend found my boyfriend attractive”, you wrote. Next you wrote, “it has been playing on my mind .. that I am not attractive enough to be with him”-

whether you are attractive enough to  be with your boyfriend is not up to that man who shouted, a stranger to you and to your boyfriend. Nor is it up to the “Lots of girls (who) follow him on social media”. It really is up to him to determine if you are attractive enough to be dating you.

I suggest you don’t give strangers the power to decide for you if you are attractive enough for him. According to your boyfriend, you are attractive enough, isn’t it so?

anita