Dear Miranam,

Situations similar to your life situation are far too common. A focus on what could have been and what is missing often saps away at valuable energy that is better put to use in a creative and productive manner. Instead of looking at alternatives make the current situation something that you consider as an active choice, a choice that you have consciously taken and focus on putting your best in to it irrespective of how the others in your life respond.

Best wishes