Dear Maddy:

You are welcome. Reads to me that the communication with his ex wife served you well. You really didn’t want to make that big sacrifice of moving to his town, give up what you achieved where you live and start all over again in some ways. I don’t know if he is a narcissist (a to-go-to label so popular these days) or if it was a toxic relationship, doesn’t read to me that it was either one. Reads to me it wasn’t worth it for you, the investment you made already and so much more investment that was required.

And that is understandable to me and fair.

anita