Michelle, My boyfriend of 4 years just did this same thing to me… said he was busy busy busy. And then all of a sudden he just disappeared.

Sara, I know that if a man loves a woman he will move heaven and earth to be with her.  Maybe this one is really too overwhelmed but do you really want a man that doesn’t check on you for 4 days?

I thought I couldn’t live without my ex-boyfriend but it has been a month and I am getting better. It is not easy. All the wondering like you are doing or what did he feel and did he mean it or did he lose it? Just what?

It is actually quite crushing. Mine sang me love songs, told me I was his everything, his rock, the love of his life etc. but looking back his actions didn’t line up with his words. All of a sudden he was very busy, then I suspected some lies (he was still calling every day) then he vanished.

I hope you get some answers and mostly some peace about all of this.