Dear Cali Chica:

I want to restate some of the information you gave in the last post (it helps me process information):

Your sister is currently living with your mother and father.

Your relationship with your sister is “very good and even closer and less triggering”.

Yesterday she told you that your mother “is constantly pushing her to reach out to me… says to my sister- I want to talk to her to make sure her husband is not treating her bad and putting negative pressure on her”.

Before I share my thoughts/ feelings, I ask you: this “very good and even closer relationship” with your sister, can you elaborate on it, on your relationship with her, on what makes it very good and close?

anita