Hi Flower,
Usually the person who breaks up with us has been thinking about it for a while. We are always blindsided because of course they don’t say or hint at anything before hand. And guess what? It’s never about our hair color or weight. It’s often just a feeling they can’t put their finger on that they’re not the one for us. But to have a boy verbalize that? *scoff!*
No, it comes out in a panic: “It’s your hair color! weight!? type?” *oh, no, she’s not buying it! she looks great! better act cold towards her!*
I would (immature, I know!) keep him Unfriended but Unblock him so he can see your amazing Profile Pics (that you will change every few months or so). When a guy friend says “Gorgeous Pic!” you say, “I know, I look great!” All he will see (over the years because he WILL be kicking himself) when he stalks you on social media are occasional Profile Pics where everyone thinks you look fabulous.
He’s not exactly a GQ model himself, is he. There’s no good way to break up with someone, but he really botched it.
Best,
Inky
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