Dear Savanah,

Thank you for your reply.

A few years back I discovered that I had a disability which changed the course of my career and life. My initial response was anger and wishing for things to be back to normal. Over a period of time I worked towards adapting to what has happened and redesigning my career to suit the level of ability that I was left with. During all this I preferred to handle it by myself and refused any form of support. Yet my wife was there constantly with me through all this and to date I am grateful to her for this.

Every person has a different way of dealing with situations and you should do what you feel is right for you.

Take care