Hi Jenny,

I love how some men can do and say the right thing…… and then proceed to dig their own graves, shoot themselves and bury their own body. *headsmack*

Go to Staples or online and get the “NO” Button. It is a button that says a very startling “NO!” when pushed. I used it with my mother one Thanksgiving when she started talking about how half of us in the family should lose weight.

Him: “… blah blah blah… Infinite Love…”

You press the NO Button: “NO!”

Him: *startles* “What I MEANT to say was…”

You: *presses NO! Button*

Him: *mentions the skanky hoe and Infinite Love*

*NO!*

Anyway, not to minimize the problem, but it worked with my mother after a very awkward fifteen minutes. She never talked about weight loss/diets/other people’s bodies again! You may not be about to fix his mentality, but you can teach people how to treat you.

Best,

Inky