Dear Bree:

Yes, I do have a question:

He lives with his parents who know about his now long distance relationship with you and are against it, in the past they successfully pressured him to not visit you in the US. He promised you that he will find an apartment and live on his own this October, but didn’t. Next you “came up with the compromise that I would go visit him for a month in October”-

My question is: you intended to stay with him in his parents’ house this October, the parents who are against the relationship?

anita