Dear shypshnius:

I understand that you are angry. If that was her motivation, I understand her, but I also understand your frustration and anger. If she reaches out to you, and you make available for her to reach out to you, ask her to explain what she was thinking and feeling at the time, so that you can verify the assumption you and I brought up. Maybe some of it is true but there is more to it. Then take it from there.

You are welcome to post here anytime, and if she reaches out to you, you can post then as you figure out how to respond.

* I will be away from the computer for about fifteen hours.

anita