Shelby,

Everyone goes through pain and healing differently so try not to think about your ex too much when it comes to this. I’m sure it’s not all smooth sailing for him either but do try to remember that it was his choice, perhaps that makes it easier for him in some way?

We on the receiving end always have unanswered questions because I guess we didn’t see it coming and that can be quite hard to deal with.

It is admirable that despite the pain caused to you you have managed to remain the good hearted person that you are. I too hope that I can find that woman within me one day. Right now I just realise I am a broken individual. And that makes me very sad. I really don’t recognise myself with this immense pain and it seems it’ll never end. I’m not sure how to help myself at this point.