Dear Sabrina:

You are welcome. For ten years he had a limited time for you and now at 54, he can’t commit to spend more time with you, still trying to be “financially and emotionally happier”. It is not promising, to me. I think it is his right of course, to invest his time in the quoted above, but it doesn’t seem that it will be happening anytime soon.

What about dating, online dating perhaps? If done wisely, in a planned way, you can locate a number of men perhaps who are ready now to commit the time to a relationship, men who are serious and interested in a long term, committed relationship, and then you can choose from those the best man for you. Do  I sound too optimistic, do you think?

anita