Dear Anita,

The relationship between my parents was troubleling before he left. I felt more like a release that he did, because of what he put my mother through. My heart is broken now that i have realised  how important a father  is, having 2 parents in your life. Makes me question if this has altered the way i act with my partners. Like, the fear of commitment, or the incapability of being vulnerable and to love someone. What do you think? Can i love someone trully?