Dear Anita,

My mother tried not to speak bad about him but i had eyes and my opinion was formed before she said anything. Once i grew older she was able to speak more about him and what she told me was nothing new. Unfortunately, it is mt father that is a selfish man that didn’t care much about me growing up. I just realised that i had the same problem with my ex partner but in that case it was easy to leave him because i did not have strong feelings. But now i have found someone special and i am afraid that i will end this relationship because of this unknown fear.