Hello Anita,

Yes the meeting did go well, I’m happy.

Mr seemed genuinely pleased to see me from the very start, he was smiling as he sat down in front of me, a genuine smile with warmth. We connected well over the course of the evening. He was glad of my apology and admitted that this angry and bitter side to me was an issue for him. I suspect this earned his respect.

Can’t help but feel a bit chuffed that he asked if I was dating anybody – it was a bit out of the blue as we had stopped talking relationship hours before. After this he opened up about the recent ending of his long-term relationship – its definitely over for good this time. Sounds like she did not make him feel very welcome.

Previously one of my errors was to and not allow space for him to come forward in his own time and allow that space in the relationship. So I will wait for now- although I’ll make a point of wishing him well on his birthday.

-Feathering