Dear Julia:

Better not be that helpful person that gives and doesn’t receive. We need to be appreciated for what we do for others, otherwise, we feel empty and we get emptier and emptier.

Relationships need to be win-win propositions, otherwise they are unhealthy, the one doing all the giving loses and the one receiving is never satisfied.

“I  don’t even want to try anymore”- better  not try anymore lose-win, or lose-lose interactions and relationships, better try the win-win kind.

What do you think?

anita