Dear Clover:

Of the two choices I say continue your bachelors because it will help you to move away faster. If I found myself back in time, I would move away as fast as  possible. The  only reason I would not move away would be if it was likely that I will die if I  moved (hunger, disease, violence). So of the  two choices, definitely the one that will help you move away  faster.

And then,  if I may add, don’t make  my  mistake and go back.. or let them follow you where it is you will be moving to!

anita