Hi Shelbyville,

After the holidays I would encourage you to “get out there”.

You CAN travel. You CAN buy your own home. You CAN find love again. You CAN date again.

Yes, you will always have a special place in your heart for him. “Always” gives you permission to keep feeling whatever feels you may have for him. “Place” means just that: a PLACE in your heart. Not the entire heart. Not even close. You have a long life ahead of you, with new, more, and better characters to meet and adventures to be had.

Let your family and friends take care of you this holiday, and then grasp 2019 with two hands!

Best,

Inky