It could be my fault too but i cant think of anything that i did, i broke up with him because all of a sudden he became distant and then he went on vacation and became a total different person because he was smoking weed and I wasn’t going to wait for something worse to happen so i broke things off and he didnt care at all he actually seemed happy and like i was holding him back from having fun. My explanation to this is that he didnt give himself enough time to get over his ex girlfriend which he was with for 5 years and that i was a rebound and maybe he wanted to experience what the single life is like and i was holding him back, even though he talked about marriage alot and gave me false hope he then said he was never ready for commitment and that I deserve someone better.