Hi Cranberry

I sympathise with the position you’re in. I don’t know if my advice is helpful but it seems to me that he’s a bit immature? I can see how his comments are causing upset, i think you should ask him if it was the other way around (and you mocked him about cheating or posted online about older men) how he would feel?

ive been in relationships where I’ve been more committed to my partner than they have been to me. I’ve also been in relationships where it’s been the other way around – both can be horrible in different ways.

Communication may solve your problems, but I think the universe will make it clear to you if this is a person you’re meant to be with. If it doesn’t feel right, it’s probably not. If he is sweet and caring like you said above, I think there’s something there to hold onto. Talk to him, make yourself a priority and if his comments really get to you don’t just put up with them. You’re important, you deserve to be happy. Anything less than that isn’t serving you.

Keep strong xx