Dear Eli:

You are welcome. What  he told you, “I can not count on you and you don’t give me  any power to move mountain for you and leave my wife” makes  no sense: the power to get a divorce is his, his wife and the courts, not yours. You don’t have the power to go to the courts and say: I want that  man to divorce that  woman. He has to request a divorce, or she has to request it.

Regarding his claim that you are not stable, I suppose as a thing, an object, you are not  stable. If you were really a thing, then for a thing you  are  unstable. But a human, unlike a  thing, has feelings, happy at one time, sad  at another,  scared or  angry. He too is unstable  that way.

anita