Dear Harminder:

Do you think that it is a possibility that your father feels and have  felt like a failure since you came into his life and probably before, and so he gets angry when you experience a success and tries to rain on your parade, to make you feel like he does,  like a failure?

I wonder if he shared  with you, or you have any knowledge otherwise about his relationships with his parents, whether he thinks his mother, perhaps, sabotaged him, kept him away from being successful, whether you noticed that he feels angry at his mother/ parents.

anita