Dear Jack:

You wrote that when in the relationship with her, you cried late at night, and in August, “my anxiety and depression started kicking in again… sometimes  I wasn’t  able to function normally as she had to pick me  up from the street and carry me to her home”-

-your significant anxiety and depression preceded your first relationship with a girl, started before you met her, kept  going  while in the relationship, and is  still ongoing.

When  did it  start, what is it  about and did you attend psychotherapy?

anita