Hi Hella,

Yes, everything you wrote makes a lot of sense to me. It’s natural to have moments when you miss how good being with him made you feel, but your good sense seems to then swing you back to a strong awareness of all that’s not so good about the history you now have with him. This is what progress looks like, I think. My two cents: When you have the difficult moments, just relax and trust that each will pass and that you’ll be okay, because you will.

This guy’s not so great. You can do better. 🙂

B