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I think you should give her space… you both are still so young and believe me I remember being young and in love! It hurt like no other when we broke up, but it also gave me time to be with my friends and do the things I wanted to do!
I would tell you to keep the happy memories you have and continue on with life! You are in college… and she’s in high school it’s a big difference. Let her explore what she “needs” and you do the same! Go out and be with your college friends and do all the things college students do!
I know it’s a constant thought on your mind I’m sure wondering what she’s doing or who she’s with and so on, but you have to get out there and distract yourself.. maybe join a club or a sport team!