Dear lostcloud:

Do you want to understand him better, now, at this point, that is understand what motivated him all along, what motivates him now?

If you do- I had a thought a little while ago: seems like he didn’t value you and he doesn’t value his current girlfriend. I think that he is looking for something in a woman that he can’t find. That he will not be able to find, therefore he dismisses the women in his life, does not commit, is not content, and he keeps looking. Sure, the mating instinct plays a part, but there is something else, beyond the need or want to have sex.

I wonder what it is that he is looking for. Do you know?

anita