Belinda,

As you know from your two online experiences of your previous husbands, people act differently face-to-face.  There is so much to reveal when two people get together in person, in different situations, in different environments.  That is why dating is a good thing to do (Facetime is not dating).  Personally I don’t believe in going head first into a romantic relationship without spending extensive in-person time together.  I have met many a woman from online but my requirement is that I need to actually be able to see her on a couple-times-a-week basis in order to build a romantic relationship.

I am not sure what “slow” means except that you delay having sex.  Otherwise, does slow mean not communicating as often?  does slow mean you don’t reveal as much?  I don’t think that really makes the relationship that much richer.  I do think that it does give people an opportunity to make time to satisfy their emotional needs elsewhere and not to depend on one person for that.  What does he mean when he wants to take your relationship “slow(er)?”

Mark

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