Dear curiousknowledgeseeker:

You are welcome. It helps to simplify matter, see things simply. For example, instead of studying family cultural customs and values, better see the basics of things, selfishness where it is, one family member trying to unburden herself by passing the burden to you. Better see mistreatment where it is instead of calling it tradition or value- these words have a positive connotation that confuse the issue- mistreatment is always negative. So stick to the basics.

anita