Dear Hella:

If only we could read another person’s thoughts and feelings. I don’t know though if it would have been a good idea to do that, but we can’t, so it’s a mute idea. We can guess, look for evidence, hypothesize based on evidence, check our hypothesis, go the scientific way about it.

His words meant that he did pay attention and noticed that you clicked the attend on Facebook, and that he expected you to be at the party and that he noticed you weren’t there. His body language, according to your sharing above, indicates him feeling some distress while interacting with you at the club. I suppose he is aware enough that you have a problem with him.

Is that a drawing of his face, above your username?

anita