Dear Jay:

By “not act scared of her anymore”, I didn’t mean to perform so that she thinks you are not scared of her. In my mind, it is not about what she thinks, it is about what you feel, the quality of your life. Every time you try “to keep the peace”, every time you communicate with her although it is not necessary, you are hurting yourself.

You are welcome and I am looking forward to read what your solicitor says tomorrow. I hope you have all the questions you have for him/ her written down and that you get clear and complete information.

anita