Dear Rai:

Is the cheating man the same man with whom you had a three year relationship, who cheated on you multiple times while in the relationship, then pursued you to resume the relationship, then cheated on you while pursuing you (previous thread)?

If so, yes, I would let his new girlfriend know. I suggested letting her know six months ago- the sooner the better because she should know before having a child with him! You can prevent a new person to come into the world to parents who are likely to repeatedly fight because of his cheating.

Your intention in letting her know is not relevant, you may be motivated by anger, but it doesn’t matter because what does matter is to give this woman an opportunity to end a relationship before having a child or children with a man whose cheating is not a one time event, but a pattern of behavior.

(I looked at your previous thread and there is a person who posted there last asking for help, no one responded, I will bring back that thread so to answer this member now).

anita