Dear Rai:

“the guy told me she has anxiety and panic attacks”-

If you share the truth with her (giving her a way to check your information herself), you will not be creating her anxiety and panic attacks, they are already there. She is already suffering from anxiety and panic attacks. If you tell her about his cheating and she ends the relationship as a result, she is likely to be less anxious, not more.

And better give her the opportunity to end the relationship before she gets pregnant and brings children into a marriage where the mother is anxious and panicky and the father is busy chasing other women!

I hope you tell her soon.

anita