She tells me not to read anything into it…I think she’s deliberately trying to establish boundaries for herself because she admits that it was so easy for us to go too fast. We both have young kids and she freaked out because she saw us having a blended family. I reminded her that that is something way down the road. I think she’s scared and confused. She says when it’s just the two of us it’s magic and it really is…I just don’t understand why we can’t simplify things and focus on the good.