Dear Lily:

I understood correctly, that you said no to him and am very pleased that you did. I was expressing my strong feelings on the topic because of my personal experience and having read about yours, a similar experience. I suppose I am drilling the point, for you and any young woman who may be reading this thread. I want you  to act like the valuable person that you are, not only in the context of men who are looking to  selfishly use women, but in any context!

anita