Dear Lindsey:

He is not handling the situation effectively, the two of you are doing badly, really, in this post relationship communication. He shouldn’t have texted you if you were angry and then not respond. He should have suggested to meet you for a conversation or not text you at all.

Reads like the only way there can be some  closure for you in regard to M., if closure is possible for you at all, would be in an office with a competent couple counselor that will make it  possible for you and M to effectively communicate back and forth, start with identifying the main problem and working toward a resolution.

anita