Dear Dan:

“we’ve become to know each other, been for coffee and lunch together a couple of times”-

– get to know her more, over another coffee or lunch. If you find out what she values, what motivates her, what she likes and dislikes,  and you still like her, then you will have meaningful things to say to her, sharing with her what you value, what motivates you, and you will not have to worry about “saying cool things to impress her more than the other lads”, you will have real, meaningful things to say to her.

anita