Dear  Alexandria:

I re-read part of your original post and you did write there that he broke up with you, but what you suggested next was that before he went on his 3 day party thing he tried to get back with you and you were the one who didn’t want to: “he was a complete mess. He kept trying to get a hold of me and talk to me but I kept telling him that I couldn’t yet because I was too sad/ mad at him”.

What was the nature of that “miscommunication earlier that day”, leading to him breaking up  with you, what happened?

And how  often do these miscommunications/arguments/ fights happen?

anita