Hello Anita,

Thank you for your reply. Before breaking up with her we were in a very good relationship. We loved each other very much and almost never got into any arguments. Leaving the country was definitely the main reason for the break up.

I forgot to say that our “friendship” lasted a total of 6 months before she decided to block me completely. The last 4 months is when she became more and more cold to me and started to say that I am annoying her etc. Sigh.. I think we both could have done things better. But i still can’t stop blaming myself and feel like this is mainly my fault.

Yes, I was so naive thinking becoming friends right after a break up would be easy. I did not think it would become this messy. I was wondering if there was any way to fix all of this and for us to talk again, and maybe try becoming friends again.