Dear Kylee:

You wrote in your original post: “maybe I’m not understanding his perspective or .. what he thinks”. In your recent post you wrote, “he doesn’t want to have sex right now because he doesn’t want me to think he’s just using me for that”.

Questions:

1. Do you have any idea at all about “his perspective” and what “he thinks”?

2. When you do get together with him, do the two of you have sex each time; did he have sex with you at any time after telling you that he doesn’t want to?

-if he does, how does it come  about that he has sex with you even though he doesn’t want to- do you ask him to have sex with you (“I asked to spend the night”, original post)?

anita