Dear Tara:

I’d say, unless his recent positive change (no longer using drugs and partying)- unless that change happened as a result of him attending psychotherapy, or AA or one of the support groups for drug addictions- psychotherapy or support group that he is still attending and is involved with- then I wouldn’t trust his change to continue and become permanent.

Also, is your mental/ emotional health now that you are living with him significantly worse than before you met him? If so, the proof is in the pudding-> “Too Toxic”.

anita