Dear cali sister:

Your mother taught you (and your sister) how selfish other people are, how bad they are etc. Well-most are not as bad as her- a point to remember.

Yes, there are lots of selfish, inconsiderate people, but not as many and not as badly as your mother taught you. (My mother taught me the same).

I know you crave people, we all do. It is natural to crave company, affection, positive attention, and at your age it is definitely natural to crave a love relationship.

I will soon be going for an hour walk in the fog- it is foggy outside: above, below, to the sides, everywhere, not an inch of the outside that is free of fog.

anita