Hello Heena Love,

You say you’ve shared everything with your friend except the way he feels.  He rarely expresses his feelings.  This is not actually sharing.  In one rare moment did he confess to loving someone else.  Why are you travelling to see him every two weeks – this sounds very one way and if he’s moved on to love someone else, why would he accept your visits so frequently.  Your language is very dramatic.  He can’t possibly be everything to you and you can’t possibly love him more than life itself.  This is far too much for any one person to accept from another.  Take responsibility for yourself by learning to love yourself and then learn to love the life you have been given.

You are missing your friend – that’s all he is to you.  He has limited himself to just being your friend which means you are limited to just being his friend.

Accept things as they are and begin to make new friends and broaden your interests.  Devote your energies to new relationships with someone who does want to be your partner in romance and stop torturing yourself over this unrequited love.

Peggy