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September 18, 2020 at 7:09 am #366929
I know this is late in the day but I wanted to send you a massive CONGRATULATIONS. Making the switch from negative thinking to positive thinking is one huge leap which can only benefit you. We all have an ego. Embrace it. Let it work for you. Befriend it. You are who you are. Love that person.
Depression is the opposite of expression. Keep expressing yourself both through the written word and the spoken word in a way that allows you to stay safe. (Depression is unexpressed anger/grief). Responsibility is the opposite of blame. Continue to take responsibility for yourself. Brilliant.
Keep smiling and one day someone like me will smile back. As the saying goes, if someone hasn’t got a smile, give them yours.
Lots of love and light
PeggySeptember 18, 2020 at 6:26 am #366924
Thank you for your concern. I can’t believe a week has gone by. I’ve had a funny time, preparing for a holiday I’ve booked at short notice, seeing family, and switching internet providers (3 days without connection). All in all, I am ok but won’t be around this coming week.
I am still thinking of you and I am putting a name forward of someone I came across recently who specializes in accessing past life records. He is also a Reiki Practitioner and I found him very accommodating in that role. His name is Neil Burgess and can be contacted at email@example.com.
Let me know how you get on.
Love and Light
PeggySeptember 8, 2020 at 3:45 am #366320
I just want to reassure you that I have not gone away. I have had a couple of days when all I’ve done is sleep. I will keep sending you good energies and see if I can gain more focus today.
Love and light
PeggySeptember 4, 2020 at 12:10 pm #366138
I haven’t been able to pick up on you very well for a couple of days but I have sent you aura cleansing and protection as well as I am able. You are describing seeing things with your mind’s eye which is the third eye or brow chakra. You are having this interference which is stopping you from living your daily life and following your dream of becoming a writer. Ask your angels to protect you and keep you safe. Ask them to guide you to your true path. Selenite is a good crystal to use for this. Rock salt or salt lamps can help absorb any negativity that may be around you in your home or workplace.
I will write more when I get some clearer images.
PeggySeptember 3, 2020 at 8:35 am #366056
You are not losing your mind. You are going through a challenging time. It sounds as if this phenomena has been with you for some time but that the past year things have become more difficult. Would you say that is true and in your opinion do you think the blocks you are experiencing relate to this one man? How strongly does your dead relative feature in communications and are you aware of any other spirits that are similarly speaking to you?
I will try and scan your energy field again today and see what I can find.
PeggySeptember 3, 2020 at 8:19 am #366054
Don’t criticize yourself. Work towards a positive self image. List all the good things about yourself and any good things others have said about you. Spend two or three weeks really absorbing the special qualities you possess. There is no-one else like you. Any time you need to make a major decision on the way forward, do some brainstorming. Divide a sheet of paper into two columns – For Decision – Against Decision. It usually becomes quite clear which route to take. It may not be perfect but sometimes any decision is better than no decision.
Letting go could have two interpretations. 1) Letting go of past hurts and relationships 2) Letting go of tensions and learning to relax, tensions meaning muscular tensions. Such tensions are frequently a result of negative thought patterns manifesting in the body.
Problems and situations are always helped by positive thinking. Don’t focus on the problems, focus on the solutions. Positive action will help alleviate depression. None of us has a crystal ball that can predict the future. Sometimes, you just have to ‘go for it’. Things rarely work out as we think they will. It won’t necessarily be better or worse, it will just be different.
80% of what we worry about doesn’t happen, so what is the point of worrying when all it does is create tensions in the head, neck and shoulder area. You can apply the ‘STOP’ technique. Whenever you catch yourself with a thought that isn’t going to benefit you say ‘STOP’. Literally stop yourself from thinking negatively.
Finally, don’t dwell on the past or be overly concerned about the future. Live in the NOW. Be grateful for all that you have in your life today. Think of ten things and give thanks each and every night as you settle down to sleep e.g. a toothbrush, a pair of shoes, a roof over your head, a comfortable bed and so on.
Keep the good memories. Always.
PeggySeptember 1, 2020 at 8:15 am #365936
Carolyn has given you a very good reply. What does ‘honoring your truth’ mean? What is the truth of you? I think that this is being true to the person that you are so who are you? Who are you when you strip away all the conditioning we all suffer from? What is the essence of you? What do you want? There are things we think we want (logical process) but if we put our hands on our hearts and ask the question “how does this feel”, we could come up with an entirely different answer. If you want to be happy, follow your heart.
When dealing with the Law of Attraction, be aware that you may not get what you want immediately. You may have to go through a few hurdles first. You may have to give something up before something new can enter that space.
I hope I’ve given you something to think about.
PeggySeptember 1, 2020 at 7:50 am #365935
How awful for you that you have lost both your best friend and your fiance to each other, and so close to your split. It sounds to me that you are really so much better off without them and that neither of them deserved you. I agree wholeheartedly with Marie and MochaB. Your physical sensation of grief and feeling that you can hardly breathe suggests that this has impacted on your chest/heart area so make sure that you intentionally send love to this area. Reclaim that which you have given to others and give it to yourself instead. When you have filled your heart with self love, let it flow to every other area of your body.
You say that this loss is triggering past traumas. Let those traumas come up and then release them. I know this is a painful process but it will serve you well in the long run. The emotion you attached to the events is the part that causes the problem. Taking some time to examine them, releasing the emotions that come up, forgiving anyone that you need to forgive including yourself where appropriate will go a long way towards healing yourself.
You will come through this. Stay strong and let your light shine.
PeggyAugust 31, 2020 at 2:37 am #365873
Hello Rose of Yellow,
Aquarius is seen as the humanitarian sign and, as it is planetary, everyone will feel its force sooner or later. People will be elected into power according to their desire to look after the health and well being of all of us rather than their desire to create wealth and power for themselves or for their Country. This may not happen during this current election but it will happen eventually.
The right Leader will show up at the right time. The Universe will create it. Perhaps it already has.
Continue to pray for responsible leadership who hold truth and integrity in high esteem and one day it will become a reality. Meantime, I and thousands like me, will continue to send out our healing thoughts and deeds on a daily basis and help create that better world we are all hoping for.
PeggyAugust 30, 2020 at 11:39 am #365842
Thank you Anita. Much appreciated.August 30, 2020 at 11:36 am #365841
I am glad that I have had this opportunity to help you. You sound like a very generous person and perhaps the nature of your dreams will change now. It is possible that you are meant to have a continuing connection in this lifetime as someone (spirit) has gone to a lot of trouble to make you aware of this man’s presence.
As a healer, I only deal with what is presenting itself – so healing always takes place in the present even if the situation happened in a past life. I will keep an eye on your energy field for a few days and will be on hand should you want to share with me any changes you have noticed.
Past lives tend to arise on some kind of priority basis – they come up when they need to suggesting unfinished business which needs addressing. See what happens if/when this past life has been successfully dealt with. It may be that another lifetime will show itself spontaneously at which time I will be happy to help. There are regression therapists who will help you explore your past lives but I personally think that they should all come with an assurance that they are qualified to help you deal with the residual effects. I know from my own past life experiences that some events can be very traumatic or you can be left with undesirable images and you/they need to be sure that they are equipped to deal with the aftermath.
I understand the element of being alone and want to assure you that you don’t need to feel that any more. We can keep in touch for as long as you want to.
PeggyAugust 30, 2020 at 2:24 am #365812
I was able to pick up on your energy field and found what I tend to term ‘a grey area’ which stretched from your throat area to the base of your torso. I was able to clear this and followed it by cleansing your whole energy field. I hope you find that you can go about your daily tasks with less hindrance.
I did pick up something from a past life which I’ll give to you: it seems that you were a musician in an orchestra playing a violin (female) and that there was some jealousy on the part of a male violinist. He was quite overbearing and you just sat there, not saying anything. It was, however, hurtful to you and my interpretation is that you had not dealt with your ‘hurt’ in that lifetime so you have carried it through with you into this lifetime. When you say that you had a dream of him sitting upset, it seems to be saying that he regrets his behaviour towards you and was probably not aware of how much it was hurting you because you didn’t tell him. Forgiveness is probably the key to resolving this issue.
This work is quite new to me, Emilly, so please feel free to check what I am saying. Perhaps you can meditate on any aspect of this and see what insights you receive.
Let me know your thoughts.
PeggyAugust 29, 2020 at 6:54 am #365786
I wish I could have replied to you sooner and hope that you will see this anyway. We all go through times when it seems that the world is against us and nothing works out as we want it to. If you really feel that someone has wished ill on you, then the thing to do is to send it back to them. You may not know who it is but that doesn’t matter. There is a Law in operation that states whatever you give out shall be returned to you. Just ask for any ill will to be returned to those who sent it.
With regard to negativity, try and counteract some of this by developing the habit of thinking positively. Use positive affirmations and speak to others as positively as you can. Focus on anything good that happens to you – perhaps you just haven’t noticed. It could be a beautiful flower or a sunset that catches your attention. Spend time with people who leave you feeling uplifted, watch some comedy that makes you laugh, enjoy learning a new hobby or meeting new people.
Be the change you want to see and be lucky.
PeggyAugust 29, 2020 at 6:33 am #365784
Dear Emmy 8675309,
Welcome to the club. I have had a hard time trying to make out why certain situations and blocks have been in my life too. After several years, I finally feel like the blocks are being removed and I might actually be able to get on with my life. I found some very good meditations on line by Stephen Nobel which may help you.
Also, I can sometimes ‘tap in’ to people and previous lives. I can give this a try and see what happens. I can also scan your energy field and see if I can remove any visible blocks. I’ll have some free time in about 5 hours time so will give it some attention.
PeggyAugust 29, 2020 at 6:11 am #365783
I have been through this situation a few times – a lot of people find it difficult to let go. You have taken the healthy route in making peace with the past and moving on to a new relationship. You have, however, thrown up two issues that relate to you. Trust and anxiety. Why do you need to feel anxious about your boyfriend’s past relationship. You don’t mention children and the absence of little ones makes it much easier to just walk away. Physically, your boyfriend sounds as if he has done that but he still carries a mental/emotional bond. It is pointless regretting the past when there is nothing anyone can do to change it. There is nothing to fix. Break-ups hurt. The problem here is that he needs to heal his emotional wounds. I calculate that he has had a good two years to do this. Replaying the scene will only keep the wounds open. He behaved how he behaved. She behaved how she behaved. People interact and no one person should take the blame for the ending of a relationship.
Obviously, I do not know how he behaved, but if he really regrets it, then he won’t be repeating that behaviour with you.
I hope you can work through this and get him to focus on the relationship he has with you NOW and not dwell on the past.