Valora, they are keeping their dating life a secret at the moment. And probably plan to keep that away from the children. That put aside, I still think kids will figure out that their relationship is not a loving one. But in the end, as anita is saying…there are a lot of married couples who don’t have a perfect relationship and aren’t a good example.

As for the job…the chance for me looking for one outside this country is bigger and bigger. Since that was my wish long time ago and never had a real chance…now I don’t have anything stopping me. And….yesterday he said the wrong thing (for the first time), Don’t know what was his intention, maybe just an innocent comment. But he said he never had quit one job without having another. To me it sounded like a critic of my situation…which I didn’t choose and couldn’t predict (i had a serious job offer at the moment, at least that looked like that).