Dear Este:

This part: “seeing him dashing to the front of the classroom with a big smile to sit next to  her (sometimes completely disregarding me, even when I wave), often reminding me how much she helps him with academics and how smart she is and how often he texts her about problem sets (multiple tomes a day into the night always with prompt replies”-

– I can’t imagine this not being a problem for any girl, abandonment issues or not. How can it possibly feel okay to wave to your boyfriend, he ignores you waving to him as he rushes.. to sit by another girl.

Do you see how this part would bother anyone, that it bothering you is not an indication that you are “a toxic, demanding person”?

anita