Hi Sarah,

Well, my DH is sixteen years older than me. So he had quite a few girlfriends and one on-and-off-again relationship which lasted eight years. But guess what? It’s as if the women never existed! He is a gentleman and never brings them up. Sure, he’s talked about them, but only when I have asked. It’s just basic politeness.

Your guy needs to stop his Mention-itis of all these exes. It’s not petty or small of you to ask this.

And guess what? If it doesn’t work out, your ears will be ringing as he will Mention YOU a lot, to the next girl!

Best,

Inky

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